I am not a sales and marketing guru.
I've written two books on marketing and
taught thousands of people how to sell
themselves, but really, I don't know
more about sales and marketing than
most of you.
What I know how to do is talk to
people, all kinds of people --
restaurant owners and waiters, CEO's
and receptionists, entrepreneurs and
kindergarten teachers. I don't try to
sell these people anything; we just
have a conversation. But sales happen
as a result.
In my book "Get Clients Now!" I define
marketing as telling people what you do
over and over. That's part of the
secret right there. I've seen too many
business owners fail because they
simply don't speak up about their
business. Or else they tell someone
once what they do for a living, and
then think they never need to mention
it again.
But there's another piece of the sales
and marketing puzzle that often gets
left out. When you talk to someone
about your business, you need to be
direct, authentic, and unattached to
the outcome.
Clients and students often ask me
questions like, "What do I say when I
call Mr. Big to find out if he's ready
to buy?" They're shocked when they hear
my answer: "Hello, Mr. Big, have you
decided to purchase our product?"
Or maybe the question is how to follow
up with someone you met at last night's
event who expressed some interest in
your service. My suggestion is to
say: "When we spoke last night, you
seemed interested in my services, and
I'd like to continue our conversation."
What do you do when you fear that the
client doubts your qualifications? How
about: "You seem a bit unsure of my
qualifications to do the job, and I'd
like to address that. What are your
concerns?"
These are all conversations. You ask a
question; they answer. They ask a
question; you answer. It's like a
friendly tennis match -- all you have
to do is keep the ball in the air, and
nothing is at stake.
But that's the catch, isn't it? You
think there's a lot at stake. What if
you don't get the contract, the client,
the money? So you make the conversation
overly significant, put on your
marketing face and your selling voice,
speak someone else's words... and the
result is anything but direct and
authentic.
What impact does this have on the
person you're speaking with? The
opposite of a direct approach is an
indirect one: devious, underhanded,
sneaky (check your thesaurus). The
opposite of authentic is inauthentic:
phony, fraudulent, insincere. Isn't
this exactly what you have always been
afraid of -- sounding like a used car
salesman or telemarketer reading a
script?
Scripts are for rehearsals. In a
meeting or on the phone, keep some
talking points in front of you, but
don't read. Every word should be one
you would use in normal conversation --
use instead of utilize; fix instead of
rectify; help instead of facilitate.
Get to the point quickly, and tell the
truth about it. "I'm just calling to
introduce myself," is not only an
ineffective pproach, it's a lie.
Show a sincere interest in people by
asking questions about their goals and
problems. When you see a place where
your business can help, don't hesitate
to say so. Be respectful of people's
time and really listen to what they
say. Respond to what you heard instead
of continuing to the next item on your
agenda. Don't be afraid to toot your
own horn while staying true to who you
are.
But these are just tips for changing
your behavior. The real key is in your
attitude. If you can recognize that
being indirect, inauthentic, or
attached to the outcome is causing you
to lose sales instead of make them,
you'll have a powerful incentive to do
things differently.
C.J. Hayden, MCC can be reached at http://www.getclientsnow.com.
C.J. Hayden is the author of Get
Clients NOW! Thousands of business
owners and salespeople have used her
simple sales and marketing system to
double or triple their income. Get a
free copy of "Five Secrets to Finding
All the Clients You'll Ever Need" at
http://www.getclientsnow.com
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