Do you have a blue print for creating the life you are dreaming about?
Do you know
what your success looks like? Are you willing to take the steps to get there and walk the
talk?
Like most people, you deserve to be successful but you may not have an effective
system to rely on.
You need a plan, methods to use every day and a support system that
keeps you energized and inspired.
Why are results not showing up?
If you are not getting the results you want, you are missing a success plan and a good
compass. Success is achieved by design and effort not by chance. So it is important for
go-getters like you to be equipped with an environment geared towards their success.
Steps to Creating Results Right Now
Now, let us learn 5 powerful steps to create results in a hurry in your life. This will begin
to use specific and tested success methods that will support you every day. It may rock
your boat a bit but you will begin to trust that you are going somewhere. Anyhow, you
can handle it, can't you?
1 ) Develop self honesty
It is important to detect that there are many excuses to explain not making progress. The
problem is not making excuses; it is convincing yourself that it is OK with you. It is not OK to let your dreams go.
You must try, persevere and learn from setbacks; you deserve being there every day. Self
honesty is about making the difference between having a wish and working on getting
there. Just like any skill, it needs to be learned and practiced.
There is no need for judgment or criticism here, all you need is to practice always telling yourself the truth.
For example, here are "self honest" statements:
- I am dreaming about it but I am not really willing to take it on
- know I could do better but I don't know how to
- feel too old (or too busy, too whatever) and I use that to justify not making progress.
Catch yourself being honest with yourself. It gives you strength and courage. What areas
in your life need truth? Tell yourself the truth about it and write it down.
2 ) Create and write down your personal plan
"I will make $XXXX or YYYY euros this year" is not a plan, it is a goal. It is not enough
to do that. You also need to list what you will make month by month, week by week and
to establish how you will stay on track. You need to know for sure when you get off track
so you can get right back on it. If you miss your weekly goals, the monthly plan will not
happen so also being "self honest" is essential.
This is actually how you can bring success to any venture: by setting inspiring but
realistic goals and tracking down your progress day by day, week by week. When you get
off track, correct immediately.
3 ) Maintain a daily to-do-list
I highly recommend to my clients that they develop a daily to-do-list. They should update
it 1st thing in the morning every day, except when it is a day off. Items need to be concise,
specific, prioritized and realistic. For instance, "make 5 phone calls to potential clients by
noon" or "Clean up my files and spend 2 hours max doing that" are good examples.
Stay focused on one single task until it is complete. Observe when and how you get off
track: people interrupting, TV, food, feeling tired or bored etc. Also notice how and when
you get back to the interrupted task. Write down whatever comes up: ideas, insights,
observations or more things to do later.
Make the list short so that you complete it and experience success every day. Do
whatever it takes to complete your list. No excuses. This is how commitment is
reinforced. You are walking the talk. As you develop your capacity and discipline,
challenge yourself with more items on the list. This will increase your self-trust and your
ability to do what you said you are going to do.
4 ) Develop a self-evaluation system
You need to know how you are doing from a source that is not you. The evaluation
provides you with an unbiased, accurate and un-arguable view point. This develops your
compass and helps avoiding getting lost in the ocean of all the possible reasons to not
make progress.
Here are examples of how to develop a good compass:
- Find a clear way to evaluate your goals. For instance, if your goal is to take better care
of your health, taking 3 walks this week is a measurable event.
- Use numbers as guides, they don't lie. Did you make your 5 phone calls or not? If you
made less than 5, you missed the goal.
- Ask to get honest feedback from trusted friends or colleagues. Notice anything that is consistently repeated.
When you miss a goal, no need to beat yourself up for it. It is an opportunity to learn
what happened and use that knowledge for the next time. This is how your courage and
tenacity is reinforced.
5 ) Stay energized and focused
The higher your goals, the more you can get derailed by harsh criticism, setbacks and
unplanned events. It is crucial to surround yourself by practices and people that nourish
and protect you.
List:
- What people around you can help you stay positive and motivated?
- What regular practices can nourish your body and soul?
- How will you reward yourself? Go crazy here; you deserve fun and joy for your efforts.
More:
- Help someone with nothing in exchange. Life will reward you immensely
- Meditate, pray and/or spend quiet time alone every day
- Regularly attend personal growth workshops and keep learning about yourself.
I have personally used these techniques for years for my personal goals and to help a
startup get listed successfully on NASDAQ. Whatever the objectives are, the techniques
are the same, very powerful.
Hiring a dedicated coach is one key step that most successful people take. It provides
them with a trusted and effective support that acts in the background. Consider taking
that step.
Go out there, reach for the sky and make the world a better place!
For more information on crafting your success step by step and never looking back, send
email to Herve@MyPrivateCoach.com
www.MyPrivateCoach.com